Passover can sometimes feel stressful and overwhelming, but it doesn't have to be. Whether you're a first-time Seder host looking for help and resources or a seasoned pro looking for fresh inspiration, we have you covered. Here are our answers to your most common questions. Don’t see your question on here? No problem. Reach out to us–we’re here to help answer all of your Passover and Seder-planning questions. (And yes, everything we do and offer is free).
I've Never Planned a Seder Before. Where Do I Start?
Take a deep breath. Seriously. The extra oxygen will help calm your nervous system. Planning your first Seder doesn’t have to be as scary as it seems. Start simple. First, check out our Passover Seder How-To Guide. Next, grab a basic Haggadah (the book that guides the Seder). Explore our library of free Haggadahs to find one that will guide you through the whole Seder meal, telling you what to say and when. We recommend the Minimalist Haggadah. And then recruit your guests to help and find ways to take shortcuts around the things that don’t matter as much to you, so you can focus on the things that do. Like ask grandma to bring the soup. Or outsource wine duty to your best friend. Or grab a rotisserie chicken from the store instead of trying that new complicated recipe.
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I'm Exhausted and Overwhelmed. What's an Easy Option This Year?
We get it. Life is busy, and sometimes you just need something manageable. If you want to host, consider a potluck-style Seder where everyone brings a dish. If you’re not hosting and just want to keep it low-key and casual, head to your local grocery store deli and pick up an easy dinner. Then download our 10-Minute Seder, and finish the night off by sitting on the couch watching The Prince of Egypt. Or, even easier? Do a quick online search to find a virtual Seder that you can call into from the comfort of your pajamas.
My Grandkids Aren't Being Raised Jewish. How Can I Help Them Celebrate Passover When They’re Far Away?
This is such a beautiful question. Passover is about storytelling and connection. Focus on the universal themes: freedom, hope, and family. Consider sending them a Passover-themed care package. You can include our Coloring Book Haggadah, various toys to represent the plagues, yummy matzah, and some games and songs like the ones in Our Favorite for Families book. For older kids, consider passing along the afikomen role-playing game, Mission From Moses. If the children are young and their parents are open to watching videos, you can share our Seder for Young Children.
My Child's Partner Is Coming to Seder. How Can I Make Them Feel Welcome?
Treat them like family from the moment they arrive, and design your Seder to be inclusive and welcoming. If they’ve never been to a Seder before, a little explanation goes a long way–most people appreciate learning about new cultural experiences. Consider using clips from the JewBelong Haggadah, a great one for interfaith audiences. There are also some beautiful readings and messages of inclusivity for same-sex couples in the JQ International GLTB Haggadah.
Final Thoughts
Passover is about more than just a meal. It's about connection, storytelling, and passing down traditions. Whether your Seder is elaborate or simple, what matters most is the love and intention you bring to the table.
And if you're feeling stuck or have more questions, don't hesitate to reach out. We're here to support you with your Seder planning in any way we can.
Chag Sameach! (Happy Holiday!)