Yes—and it's called Lag B’Omer. This under-the-radar Jewish holiday is a burst of joy and light in the middle of a mostly serious and contemplative season. Think bonfires, music, dancing, and connecting with nature. If you're someone who’s spiritually curious, culturally Jewish, or just craving meaningful rituals that don’t require synagogue membership, Lag B’Omer offers a unique chance to connect in your own way.
What’s Lag B'Omer All About?
Lag B’Omer lands on the 33rd day of the Omer, which is a 49-day spiritual countdown between Passover and Shavuot. In 2025, it begins at sundown on May 15 and ends at nightfall on May 16.
In general, the Omer is a serious time. It's a period where we really think deeply about the freedom we just gained on Passover, and prepare ourselves to receive the Torah on Shavuot. There are typically no weddings, no live music, no haircuts.
But on Lag B’Omer? All of that lifts. Suddenly, we celebrate.
Why? While historical and mystical traditions exist, many modern seekers connect with Lag B’Omer’s broader themes: resilience, hidden joy, light during dark times, and community in nature. It's a holiday that reminds us to find sparks of joy even in the middle of serious reflection.
How do you celebrate Lag B'Omer?
You don’t need a formal service or a big Jewish community to celebrate Lag B’Omer. Here are a few approachable ways to make the holiday meaningful wherever you are.
1. Light a Fire—Literally or Symbolically
Bonfires are the most iconic part of Lag B’Omer, representing spiritual illumination. If you’ve got access to a safe outdoor space, invite friends and light a fire pit. No fire? Light a candle or arrange amber-colored string lights to create a cozy glow.
Set the mood for storytelling, music, or even just shared silence under the stars. Let the flicker of the flame spark conversations about what’s lighting you up these days, or what you want to leave behind.
2. Step Outside and Reconnect
Many Jewish communities celebrate Lag B’Omer with picnics, hikes, or games in the park. Nature is a key part of this holiday. Consider:
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Going on a mindful walk
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Hosting a picnic or outdoor dinner
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Planting something as a symbol of new growth
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Trying a short meditation under a tree
3. Let the Music In
Since live music is traditionally paused during the Omer, Lag B’Omer is a day to turn up the volume. Celebrate by creating a playlist of Jewish, spiritual, or just joyful music. Listen to a favorite album, drum around a fire, or sing with friends.
4. Try a New Personal Ritual
Make the day more reflective with a small ritual that speaks to where you are right now. A few ideas:
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Candle meditation: Light a candle and spend a few quiet minutes thinking about what “hidden light” you want to find in your life.
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Letting-go ritual: Write down something you want to release—a doubt, a fear, an old story—and burn it (safely) in the fire.
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Wisdom circle: Invite friends to share a quote, poem, or piece of insight that’s been meaningful lately.
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Trim for transformation: A symbolic haircut or even just a personal grooming ritual can represent shedding the old and stepping into something new.
Why You Should Celebrate Lag B'Omer
Lag B’Omer shows us that even in structured or serious times, there’s room for joy. For modern spiritual seekers, it’s a chance to connect without pressure. You can make it your own. Light a flame, sing a song, take a walk. No rules required.
Whether you’re drawn to its mysticism, its joy, or just the excuse to gather around a fire, Lag B’Omer invites you to pause and celebrate life’s light. One spark is all it takes.